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Children and Teens Initiative

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MNADV's Children and Teens Initiative

Resources for Working with Youth

Materials for School and in the Classroom

 

 

 

Purchase MNADV's Magnetic Chit Chat for Healthy Relationships Kits

Great for teens, tweens, youth groups, and classes.

 

Give teens the tools they need to recognize the difference between healthy and abusive dating... using their own words!

 

Like "magnet poetry kits," MNADV's Magnetic Chit Chat for Healthy Relationships conveys important messages about relationships in language that teens understand as they enter the world of crushes, dating, and first loves. These kits help teens differentiate dating behavior in a healthy relationship (such as respecting each other) from unhealthy, or abusive, behaviors (such as being controlling). Purchase your kits through PayPal today!

 

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MNADV's Children and Teens Initiative

In 2008, the Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence began an initiative to address teen dating abuse, healthy relationships, and the effects of domestic violence on children.

By taking part in the initiative, professionals and community leaders learn about new and existing resources and participate in statewide collaborations. Members of the initiative include domestic violence and sexual assault program staff, private non-profits, faith-based organizations, youth organizations, educators, health care professionals, attorneys, advocates, social workers, therapists, and law enforcement.  To join, email info@mnadv.org

At a Round Table held in February 2009, the following issues were identified as issues for importance to working with youth to prevent domestic violence:

Developing and recommending school curricula on teen dating abuse

Working with faith-based youth groups

Working with boys and young men

Holding a one day conference on youth for professionals

 

Community Education & Training: Local Resources

County Organization Contact Topics Grade
Allegany

Family Crisis Resource Center

Taness Cline tcline@allconet.org 301-759-9246 Domestic Violence, Teen Dating Violence, Sexual Assault

All

Anne Arundel 

YWCA Domestic Violence Services

Carrie Matthews  cmatthew@ywcaaac.org         410-544-0716 Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, Sexual Assault

Middle High

Baltimore City

House of Ruth

Tania Araya tania@hruthmd.org 410-554-8466 Teen Dating Violence

  Middle High

Baltimore City/County    

TurnAround, Inc.

Mothyna James-Brightful mjames@turnaroundinc.org    410-837-7000 410-377-8111 Domestic Violence, Teen Dating Violence, Sexual Assault, Sexual Harassment, Child Sexual Abuse

K, 2, 4 Middle High

Baltimore Family Crisis Center of Baltimore Co, Inc. Douglas Murphy doug@familycrisiscenter.net    410-285-4357 Domestic Violence, Teen Dating Violence   Middle
Cecil Domestic Violence/Rape Crisis Center Amy Ocasio aocasio@dhr.state.md.us       410-996-0333   Teen Dating Violence, Healthy Relationships, Date Rape/Sexual Assault, Sexual Harassment, Respecting Yourself Middle High
Frederick Heartly House, Inc. Tammy Keener outreach@heartlyhouse.org 301-662-8800 Domestic Violence, Teen Dating Violence, Sexual Assault, Child Sexual Abuse All
Harford SARC - Spouse Abuse Resource Center Stacie Beard sbeard@sarc-maryland.org 410-836-8431 Teen Dating Violence, Teen Stalking, Sexual Assault, Healthy Relationships,
Bullying, Gender Roles, Personal Safety, Domestic Violence
All
Howard Domestic Violence Center of Howard Co. Kim Lennon outreach@dvcenter.org 410-997-0304 Domestic Violence, Teen Dating Violence, Healthy Relationships, Effects of Domestic Violence on Children, Medical Response to Domestic Violence Middle High
Montgomery Domestic Violence Coordinating Council Cindy Mogel cynthia.mogel@montgomerycountymd.gov 240-777-7121 Teen dating violence; characteristics of healthy/unhealthy relationships; and roles in abusive relationships. Middle High
Montgomery Montgomery County Commission for Women cfw@montgomerycountymd.gov 240-777-8300

 

Resource for Teen Dating Brochure: "Let's Talk About Violence in Relationships" (Available in 6 languages) http://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/cfwtmpl.asp?url=/content/cfw/Publications.asp  
St. Mary's  Walden/Sierra, Inc. Marlene Deal marlene@waldensierra.org 301-997-1300 ex. 863 Teen Dating Violence, Healthy Relationships

Middle High

Somerset, Wicomico, & Worcester Life Crisis Center Dee Copeland dcopeland@lifecrisiscenter.org 410-749-0771 Sexual Assault Awareness

All

Washington

CASA - Citizens Assisting & Sheltering the Abused

Sandra Bloom CASA7@myactv.net 301-739-4990 Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, Date Rape, Sexual Assault

Middle  High

 

Resources for Working with Youth

 

 

 

WDYWTTA?

What Do You Want To Talk About?

 

Links for

Teens, Tweens, and Young Adults

 

Love is Respect: Confidential online chat with peers. Create and share your own movie using LOVE Mashup.

www.loveisnotabuse.com

 

The Safe Space: Ask anything, get info, speak out, online quizzes.

www.thesafespace.org

 

Love is Not Abuse: Get info and help in the "Just for Teens" section.

www.loveisnotabuse.com

 

That's Not Cool: Post in the forum about digital dating abuse, send call-out cards on your cell, and view You Tube videos.

www.thatsnotcool.com

Love is Respect: Dating resources for teens and young adults. National Teen Dating Violence Helpline, managed by the National Domestic Violence Hotline and funded by Liz Claiborne Inc., has peer advocates responding to incoming calls and online chats.

 

     Helpline number: 1-866-331-9474

     Online chat: www.loveisrespect.org

 

Love is Not Abuse: Information for teens, parents, and community leaders. A project of Liz Claiborne Inc. Survey results about teens and tweens, handbooks for teens and parents, and a teen dating violence curriculum are available at www.loveisnotabuse.com.

 

  Choose Respect: A prevention program of the CDC, offering materials and information on forming healthy relationships for 11-14 year olds, parents, and community. For more information, go to www.chooserespect.org.

  Break the Cycle: National organization focused on teen dating abuse prevention, intervention, youth activism, education, and advocacy. They offer free materials, an interactive DVD, school curricula, "Domestic Violence 101" and "Ending Violence". More information is available at www.breakthecycle.org, and on their separate website for teens at www.thesafespace.org.

  Expect Respect: Comprehensive prevention program designed to raise awareness of dating violence, teach skills for healthy relationships, develop youth leadership, and increase safety and respect in schools. For more information, go to www.safeplace.org, click "Services and Programs" and to go "School-Based Programs".

  Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP): Jackson Katz's program using coaches, student athletes, and student leaders to be active bystanders who can intervene in a variety of ways when unhealthy or abusive behavior is occurring by or to a friend or peer. Playbooks for high school and college students and training guides for professionals are available. For more information, visit www.jacksonkatz.com.

Family Violence Prevention Fund: Has programs for teen dating abuse and the effects of domestic violence on children. Programs for teens, accessible at endabuse.org includes:

Men Can Stop Rape: An international organization based in DC that mobilizes men and male youth to use their strength for creating cultures free from violence, especially men's violence against women. Information is available at www.mencanstoprape.org.

Jewish Women International (JWI): International organization focuses on ensuring peaceful homes and relationships for women and girls. Their programs and projects include curricula for boys, girls, and young women as well as an annual conference. Their curricula, created for a Jewish audience, are adaptable to other faiths and secular audiences. More information is available at www.jwi.org.

 

Good Guys: Partnership & Positive Masculinity

(3 hour mini-curriculum)

 

1. “Being a Man” in Culture and the Media

2. Power & Relationships

3. Respect, Responsibility & Positive Masculinity

Strong Girls: Friendships, Relationships & Self-Esteem (3 hour program)

 

1. The Language of Relationship

2. What Is a Teenage Dating Relationship?

3. What does My Inner Voice Tell Me?

Strong Girls, Healthy Relationships: A Conversation on Dating, Friendship & Self-Esteem

(12 hour curriculum)

 

1. The Language of Relationship
2. What Does the Word Relationship Mean to Me?
3. What are Healthy and Unhealthy/Abusive Relationships?
4. The Role of Female Friendships
5. Who Am I and What Do I Bring to a Relationship/Friendship?
6. What Do I See For My Future?

When Push Comes to Shove...It's No Longer Love

 

1.5 hour long program designed to teach teens, young adults and college students about unhealthy and abusive relationships

 

Lundy Bancroft: Expert on abusive men and their children. child custody issues, and trauma resulting from domestic violence. Available at www.lundybancroft.com. Books related to children include:

 

     When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse

 

     The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics

 

 

Unequal Partners: Teaching About Power and Consent in Adult-Teen and Other Relationships (Third Edition) by Sue Montfort and Peggy Brick. Manual with 30 interactive lessons that helps professionals educate youth ages 10-17 to make healthy decisions about relationships, especially those involving the power imbalances that can occur. Available through Planned Parenthood of Greater Northern New Jersey, Inc. (www.ppgnnj.org)
 

The Teen Relationship Workbook: For Professionals Helping Teens to Develop Healthy Relationships and Prevent Domestic Violence by Kerry Moles, CSW Workbook for professionals to help adolescents (grades 7-12) develop healthy relationships and prevent dating abuse and domestic violence. Available from Courage to Change (www.couragetochange.com)

 

 

Materials for School and in the Classroom

 

Let's Hear it for

the Boys!

Coaches' Corner: Coaches playbook, playing field, offense, defense, time out, locker room chatter, and more.

www.coaches-corner.org

 

MVPs: Mentors in Violence Prevention program uses athletes and other student leaders to promote a school climate that is free from violence and harassment.

www.jacksonkatz.com/mvp

 

Men Can Stop Rape: Organization that mobilizes men to values positive aspects of masculinity and challenges negative aspects, including violence against women. Has MOST (Men of Strength) clubs.

www.mencanstoprape.org

 

Good Guys: Partnership & Positive Masculinity: JWI's 3 hour mini-curriculum on masculinity and relationships.

www.jwi.org (Click Projects & Programs)

 

 

Safe Dates: Evidence-based dating abuse prevention program for middle and high school students. Program includes curriculum, a play, poster contest, parent materials, and teacher training. For more information, visit www.hazelden.org/safedates. Curriculum session topics include:

 

1. Defining Caring Relationships

2. Defining Dating Abuse
3. Why Do People Abuse?
4. How to Help Friends
5. Helping Friends
6. Overcoming Gender Stereotypes
7. Equal Power Through Communication
8. How We Feel, How We Deal
9. Preventing Sexual Assault

In Touch with Teens: High school curriculum offered by Peace Over Violence that has eight units. More information is available at www.peaceoverviolence.org.

 

1. Roots of Violence: Global & Local
2. Roots of Violence: Power & Control
3. Relationship Violence
4. Cycle of Violence
5. Sexual Harassment
6. Issues of Sexual Assault & Coercive Control
7. Media Impact on Gender & Violence
8. Building Blocks of a Healthy Relationship

Committee for Children: Offers school-based programs for all levels to promote healthy social and emotional development. For more information, go to www.cfchildren.org. their programs include:

Second Step: Building social and emotional skills, 14-27 lessons for grades K-6

Steps to Respect: Bullying prevention, 10 sessions for grades 3-6, school and family components

Woven Word: Emotional literacy program, 17 lessons and 12 book readings for grades PreK-K

Journeyworks: A health promotion and health education publishing company offers the following dating violence brochures. Available at www.journeyworks.com:

 

     Intimate Partner Violence: What it is and What you can do About It

     9 Signs of a Healthy Relationship

     50 Things Everyone Should Know About Dating Violence

     Dating and Violence: How to Tell if a Relationship is Abusive

Human Relations Media: Publishes multimedia for grades K-12. In addition to teen dating abuse, materials also cover related topics of bullying, character building, communication, emotional crisis, healthy relationships, anger, self-esteem, and problem-solving. Available at www.hrmvideo.com. Video titles addressing abuse include:

 

     Open Arms? Open Eyes! Power, Control, and Abuse in Teen Relationships

     The 10 Signs of Relationship Abuse

     Dangerous Relationships

     Toxic Relationships: The Next Generation Speaks Out About Dating Violence

Kinetic Video: Provides multimedia resources on issues including teen dating abuse, bullying, self-esteem, etc. Available at www.kineticvideo.com. Titles related to teen dating abuse and domestic violence include:

 

Abusive Relationships: Get Help, Get Out! Recognizing Unhealthy Relationships
Abusive Relationships and Acquaintance Rape Relationships that Hurt: Dating Violence and Abuse
Building and Maintaining Healthy Relationships Right from the Start
Dark Side of Dating (Real Life Teens Series) Teen Safety: Dating and Relationships
Date Violence: Young Women's Guide Teens and Trauma
Dating Violence and Abuse Toxic Relationships: The Next Generation Speaks Out About Dating Violence
Lessons of Love Tulip Doesn't Feel Safe (Safety planning for children grades K-3)
Lookin' Out 4U: Three Stories About Abusive Relationships Twisted Love: Dating Violence Exposed
Looking for Love: Dating Violence and Choices Violence in the Family
Love Shouldn't Hurt: Recognizing Dating Violence When Love Hurts
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